With so many sexual health articles devoted to the female experience, you’ll have come across the topics of female ejaculation and squirting. Squirting is certainly a hot topic these days and many women are keen to try it. But they are often unsure of how to go about it.
If you think you need a little help, this guide is for you. You’ll learn how to squirt with a vibrator, whether by yourself or with a partner. So let’s dive into the exciting world of female squirting and discover why a vibrator can make all the difference.
What this article covers:
- Preparing to Squirt with a Vibrator
- How to Use a Vibrator to Squirt
- How to Make a Girl Squirt with a Vibrator
Preparing to Squirt with a Vibrator
Before attempting to squirt with a vibrator, here are some ways you can prepare. This will ensure that you have the most enjoyable experience.
Choose Your Vibrator
There are dildos (vibrating or not) that you can use to reach your g-spot. These have a curved tip, best suited for the angle your g-spot sits at (your vagina’s front wall). Other popular vibrators are small and designed to fit over and vibe your clitoris for very intense orgasms.
Hydrate
If you expect to squirt fluids from your body, make sure that your body has enough fluid, to begin with. Stay hydrated by drinking enough water throughout the day. This is good advice for your general health, too. But don’t down a gallon of water before you go for it. That will just make you want to pee.
Pee Before You Start
It’s very distracting having to pee when you’re trying to have a good time. So go to the bathroom before you get started. This is also something to do before you have sex if you can. Being close to orgasm often triggers a weak bladder, so if you think you might need it, go before you ‘O’.
Put Towels Down
Just like not all women squirt, not all women squirt the same, with some producing more volume than others. And you don’t want to be worried about soaking your sheets while you’re learning how to squirt with a vibrator.
How to Use a Vibrator to Squirt
If you want to learn how to squirt with toys without the expectant gaze of your partner, that’s not a problem. Many women feel more comfortable learning how to squirt for the first time, on their own. Once you have mastered this art, you can invite your partner to join you.
Learning to squirt can take a bit of time, so don’t become frustrated if it doesn’t happen right away. Try to relax about it, and enjoy the whole experience rather than focus solely on the outcome.
You’ll need:
- A place and time where you can be undisturbed for a while
- A vibrator
- Lube
Get Into the Mood
It’s best to try this when you are in a relaxed mood and not pressured for time. Take a warm shower or bath, and put on some music you like. Don’t stress yourself out wondering if you’ll be able to squirt when you try. You’ll be more successful if you calm your mind before heading to the bedroom.
Whatever you would do to get into the mood for sex, is perfect for masturbation with squirting too. We’re all different and respond to different stimuli. What are your best arousal triggers? This may involve watching porn, self-massage with oils, or some light play with sex toys. It’s up to you.
Select Your Vibrator
Assuming you have a selection of sex toys, choose the one you want to use. Some are best suited to this task than others. Most women who squirt do so when their g-spot is stimulated, so that vibrating dildo with the curved tip would be the one to go for. Use enough lube for your vibrator to glide smoothly.
The g-spot is not always easy to locate or reach on your own, though. So you may want to leave that to when you do this with your partner. The clitoris is much easier to find and even easier to excite.
Thousands of nerve endings make it the most sensitive part of your body. So you don’t have to use too much pressure. Although squirting from clitoral stimulation is not as common as from g-spot stimulation, it can be done.
Position for Using a Vibrator to Squirt
Once you’ve made your selection, you’re aroused and ready to start, and get into a comfortable position. This, too, differs from woman to woman. You may prefer lying on your back on the bed, with your knees drawn up. Or you could try squatting on the bed, with your legs open.
If you are attempting to reach your g-spot, the latter position may work best. It can become a problem if your legs are easily fatigued, though. That will just distract you, and make it even harder to get to the point of squirting. So match your position to your unique comfort levels.
Vibrator Motion
If you’ve used vibrators and dildos to climax before, you’ll know what your body best responds to. But you may not be sure, or want to try something new. If so, use a back-and-forth motion when using a dildo inside your vagina, as opposed to an in-and-out thrusting motion.
Another great development in the world of vibrators is the ‘cruise mode’. This technology uses sonic waves to bring you to orgasm and increases the intensity when you push the device closer to your body. This would be very effective when trying to build enough pressure for a squirting orgasm.
Pelvic Pressure
Once you have been pleasuring yourself for a few minutes with your vibrator of choice, you will feel pressure mounting in your pelvic area. This is good, it’s what will be released when you cum. But it can feel like an urge to urinate, so don’t let it fool you. Many women are tricked into stopping at this point.
If you peed before you got started, you should be fine. Don’t tense up, that will stop you from being able to squirt. Rather, push down with those same pelvic floor muscles as you feel yourself approaching the edge. Keep going with the vibrator, and you should be able to squirt as you climax.
How to Make a Girl Squirt with a Vibrator
Are you reading this to learn how to make the woman in your life squirt? That’s terrific, we’re sure you will both have a great time! A vibrator is a terrific tool for learning how to masturbate a woman to orgasm. And it’s pretty effective for teaching her to squirt, too.
But always remember to first check that you’re both wanting the same thing. And don’t place any pressure on her if she is; ’t keen just yet. Not all women can squirt, so don’t see this as a dealbreaker but rather an alternative option for some bedroom fun.
You’ll need:
- Your willing partner
- A vibrator
- Lubricant
The steps above all apply here, but there are a few other important things to mention.
Choose the Vibrator Together
If you and your partner are regular sex partners, perhaps in a committed relationship, you do things together, right? Let this be no different. When both partners shop for sex toys, together, it adds something to the dynamics of your sex life. Talk about what you both want from your selection, and discuss its use.
Help Her Get in the Mood
Give your partner a sensual massage, or stimulate her erogenous zones with other sex toys or with your fingers and tongue. You aim to get her aroused enough before starting. Don’t just dive straight into trying to squirt. The less pressure you put on her to ‘perform’, the more likely she is to squirt.
Vary Your Moves
Squirting occurs in some women when they cum. How you make them cum is not relevant. Whether you make her cum with your mouth or finger a girl to orgasm squirting is just as possible. However, most women that can squirt do so when their g-spot is stimulated.
Be Firm, Not Forceful
This is a mistake many people make when trying to please their partner with a dildo, vibrator, or even their fingers. You need the pressure to be just enough to stimulate her to orgasm, but not so much that it will hurt her.
The clitoris, especially, can become over-sensitized very quickly. Rather than continue vibrating it and causing discomfort, or stopping altogether, rather move on to other areas for a couple of minutes. Once the clitoris has returned to normal, you can go back there again.
Find Her G-Spot
The g-spot is the key to giving a woman a vaginal orgasm, and not that easy to reach with a penis or e a dildo in certain sex positions.
Familiarize yourself with this pleasure zone. It is a couple of inches up against the front inside wall of her vagina. That is why you may be struggling to make her cum in missionary positions.
Conclusion
While not all women can squirt, and that’s okay, often all that is needed is a new approach. The key to having great sex, and even greater orgasms, is experimentation. So always try to keep an open mind, and try something new when you can.
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